Parenting Role In Shaping Character Kids

Successfully educate children well are the dream of all teachers and parents. Every teacher and parent would want their children to be successful and happy, but if in fact that easy? The majority of parents had experienced difficulties in educating their beloved baby
The teachers and parents, let me ask you ... Have we thought that the negative program (maybe) we inadvertently implanted into the subconscious mind of our children, will continue to dominate and control her life - making a mess in the future? If you want to honestly evaluate yourself, it could be all of us, including me as a parent has and is doing this to our children.
Citing what is disclosed Dorothy Law Nollte:
If the child is raised with reproach, he learned cussing
If the child is raised with hostility, He learns to fight
If children grew up with ridicule, He learns inferiority
If the child was raised with contempt, then he learns regret
If the child is raised with tolerance, He learns to control herself
If the child is raised with motivation, then he learns confidence
If the child is raised with tenderness, he learned to appreciate
If a child is brought up with a sense of security, so he learned to trust
If children are raised with the support, so he learned to appreciate yourself
If children are raised with love and friendship, he learns to find love in her life
Honestly since I got married, I was very lucky to have a wife who is concerned with the development of our children. We remind each other greeting that comes out of our mouths and our attitudes and behaviors are "dangerous" for our children. We are well aware of the child does not need to be taught anything through communication, just look at it then it has been studied and recorded in his brain. We are maintaining it.
As the title above parenting is character education. For us parents, the character of what we want to instill in our children? Give an example of it in the attitudes and actions as well as words. Then the child will easily mencontohnya and store it in memory and the subconscious will be issued back when "no trigger". That? When we give an example of respect and affection for our spouses, our children are now married someday he will imitate the behavior of her parents to the spouse.
Now this is very applicable once aphorism "the fruit does not fall far from the tree" and it's how I feel right now a lot of my clients who feel that life is the result of a "copy" of his parents. If her parents give a good effect is not a problem, but if the household is a mess as his parents then this is a disaster. Why is this happening? Well, I guess you already know the answer right?
Be a role model for our beloved baby, the first and initially the child will always learn from its immediate environment, namely the elderly. They absorb information with the best of their five senses. Not just the words but the attitude of the parents and their parents' behavior will absorb too, even you are not aware of.
If our parents, want to know how much value you as a parent to educate the child, there is an easy way to know. The first report cards of our children at school (kindergarten or play group), it is our own report cards parents, not the child. You can draw from these results, how the quality of the "product" (read: kids) you. Well that was the beginning of the current report cards 3-5 years you have a family and educate children. But if you want to know the end result look at your child's life when she is in real life. Look at the interaction, how to speak and behave and if we parents are more observant and wise look at finances. The better your child's financial condition is directly proportional to your child's character owned (kosher of course).